There is no doubt that kissing, when done correctly, can create an intimacy and connection that can catapult

Let’s think about this for a minute. Have you ever been with someone who was perfect in every way? You might have common goal and agreeing opinions on important topics. They might be extremely attentive and very generous with their time. They might even be very generous with little gifts and the like. Then there comes the moment of truth. You get your opportunity for the first kiss after a couple of dates and you find yourself totally nonplussed. Either it was like kissing a dead fish or you felt as if they were trying to devour you or perhaps even some aspect of that first kiss that you simply can’t put your finger on. Maybe you even give them another chance taking into consideration the fact that maybe they were just nervous or trying too hard. But each time you find that they just stink at kissing or even that there is just no passion when you kiss them.

Now think about this for a minute. Could it be possible that your partner or perhaps someone that you just started dating could feel the same way about you? Do you want to take that chance and possibly miss out on the relationship of a lifetime because you don’t know how to kiss? Let’s brush up on your kissing technique a little bit here and get you on the path to being the type of kisser that your date is going to brag to their friends about on Monday morning.

Tension – It is important to create some sexual tension leading up to that first kiss. Yes, they are thinking about it and you are thinking about it and chances are both of you have been thinking about what that first kiss is going to be like from the moment you first met. Don’t let them down by blowing it and picking the wrong time to experience that first kiss. There will come a time when the two of you are alone and your eyes meet and without a word being spoken you will know that this is the moment both of you have been waiting for.

Try not to appear over eager. Bask in the warmth of this moment. Experience it and allow yourself to be swept up in the passion of the moment. Take it slow and allow this moment to linger in time for as long as you possibly can. That first sweet kiss is the moment that your partner has been waiting for since they first saw you and as the two of you slowly move towards that first kiss the tension builds to a point where it can almost seem unbearable. This is what you’re aiming for and this should be your goal. Gentleness and but a whisper of a kiss can be the most passionate kiss that you can give your partner for their first kiss.

Passion – With that building tension will come passion and if you have done everything right and if your partner really is attracted to you the passion will rise as your first kiss is followed by further kisses. Allow yourself to be swept up in the moment. Go where your heart leads you while at the same time picking up on queues from your partner. If they become wild with passion then go with it. If they seem to be enjoying soft, tender kisses then give that to them. There will be subtle hints along the way that you should be looking for. Are they holding you tight or touching you softly? Is their mouth open or closed? Do they seem shy or have they gone from zero to sixty in 2.3 seconds? It could be that they have been waiting a long time for this moment and the tension and passion is unbearable for them now as they become overwhelmed with passion for you.

Talking – There’s nothing wrong with quiet whispers or even some louder vocalizations when kissing. All people are different and for some it is a turn-on while for others it’s just a distraction that can be annoying. Give it a try or take your partner’s lead? Typically, if your partner is a little chatty this will mean that they appreciate some banter while making out. If you don’t feel comfortable in vocalizing while kissing take things slow and build up to it. Again, for some it’s a big turn-on and a skill that you can learn and master without much effort.

Take these tips to heart and try to stay in tune with your partner as you approach that first kiss and every one after that and you will find that your relationship will benefit greatly. Kissing is a very important yet often overlooked part of a relationship that all of us could use a little help with.

For more information on improving your kissing skills we recommend Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out how you can improve your kissing skills in ways that you never imagined with Kissing 101. After all, kissing should always be your first priority in any intimate relationship.

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You might think that there really isn’t a right way and a wrong way to kiss.

Although kissing is, at its core, just a physical form of showing someone how much you care for them, good kissing technique and a little knowledge can greatly enhance the passion and connection that you share with your partner. Think of it this way, if your partner’s breath smelled like a sewer how often would you want to kiss them? If your partner’s breath smelled and tasted like your favorite dessert though, how often would you want to kiss them?

As you can see, kissing technique can be a very important factor in the amount of affection and the frequency with which that affection occurs depending upon several factors. Yes, the smell of your breath is important and probably a basic thing that you should think of when you are in an intimate relationship but how much more important do you think it is that you know how to bring pleasure to your partner when you kiss them?

Even your adequate kissing technique could probably use improvement and learning just a few tricks or tips that you might have never thought of could make all the difference in the world to your partner. Allowing your passion to flow right from the get go could turn a close relationship into an intoxicating lifelong bond filled with passion and intimacy. And if you’re single and dating? Well, superior kissing technique could put you on the map and ultimately be the difference between being alone and being the type of person that your date will talk to their friends about and want to pursue with earnest.

So, what does it take to be an outstanding kisser? Probably the most difficult thing for many people to get a handle on is originality. What is meant by originality is that you experiment a bit more than you might be used to. Break outside of your normal routine. Forget about any “moves” that you have grown to rely upon and think about how you might like to be kissed and then go from there. Of course, pay attention to the response that you get from your partner and move slowly at first with trying new things. Basics are always important and timing is everything, so if you think that you might be lacking in either of these areas start off really slow!

Of course, for a thorough understanding of how to become extremely skilled at the art of kissing we recommend Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out everything that you might want to know about kissing from beginner to advanced kissing techniques in this fun and insightful book.

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One of the greatest things about Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 is Michelle Penney herself.

But the greatest thing about Michelle Penney is her awesome sense of humor. This is extremely evident and it comes through in her writing which many people have commented makes Kissing 101 a pure delight to read. Not only is Michelle Penney quite knowledgeable in the area of kissing and teaching people how to kiss but she does it in a way that is fun, light and enjoyable.

Look…nothing is more boring than a lecture and nothing is more tragic than someone that doesn’t know how to kiss. And the chances of you actually learning anything or having any fun from a boring lecture type book on how to kiss are slim to none. Without some excitement and a sense of humor even the most exciting topic can be turned into a methodical masterpiece of monotony. Those types of books are out there, believe me!

But Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 takes an exciting topic and makes it even more passionate and enjoyable thanks to Michelle Penney’s writing style and zest for life and teaching. And what a great vision for someone to have in their life… to teach people who either don’t know how to kiss or just aren’t really all that great at it… to teach these people how to really knock the socks off of their partner!

After all, kissing really can be the difference between life and death in your relationship depending upon how important kissing is to your partner and what kind of kissing skills you have… or don’t have! For some women, for instance, being a poor kisser is just unacceptable and a guy without some kissing skills isn’t going to get past that first kiss. And for some guys it doesn’t matter how hot a woman is, if she doesn’t know how to kiss it can spell instant doom for the future of the relationship. Honestly, I have seen this myself and it doesn’t matter how nice you are or how attractive you are… kissing is just very important to me and lacking in this department will keep the phone from ringing. Sad but true.

The great thing is that there is a cure to this ailment! Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 will not only teach you how to kiss but Michelle Penney will do it in a manner that is enjoyable and interesting and fun. You won’t feel like a loser and truthfully, there is something in Kissing 101 that just about all of us can learn. If nothing else, there are some interesting tips, tricks and nifty pieces of advice that will definitely improve even the most skilled kissers skills!

Go to Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 Homepage and pick up some tips and tricks on how you can improve your kissing skills. Just remember, that first kiss will tell your potential partner everything they will ever need to know. Don’t take a chance. Give them a kiss to remember!

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If you’re like most guys, your kissing skills aren’t even something that you give much thought to.

The short of it is, if you haven’t heard consistently from your girlfriend, present and past, that you’re a great kisser then you might have a problem. Kissing is extremely important to women. Your kissing skills are probably more of a determining factor in the future of your relationship than you even realize!

Typically, a woman will look forward to that first kiss once you have passed all other tests that she might have for a prospective boyfriend. But your kissing skills, or lack of, could easily spell doom for your relationship if you are found lacking. Close to one half of all women polled said that they would not proceed further in a relationship with a man that didn’t know how to kiss. This means that almost one half of all women will not find you desirable if you don’t know how to kiss.

After that first kiss it is said that a woman can tell all that she needs to know about a man. Have you made her weak in the knees? Did you make her toes curl? Did that first kiss take her breath away? Did that first kiss change things for her and tell her that it is true love? Was there magic in the air and was she suddenly drunk with passion? Of course, if that first kiss wasn’t everything that she had dreamed it would be she might give you another chance to stir her heart. Everyone has a bad day and you could have been nervous, after all.

Once the two of you have had your first kiss you can bet that she is going to let all of her girlfriends know though. One of the first things that a woman will share with her girlfriends is whether or not you are a good kisser. Her friends will be waiting to hear. News that you are a good kisser will be greeted with requests for more information and often your girlfriend will share with her friends when, where and how your kiss made her feel. On the other hand, if you are a poor kisser, reports of the first kiss will be met with great sadness. No, it doesn’t make you completely undateable to every woman but it definitely is a strike against you. Likewise, having superior kissing abilities makes you very desirable in the eyes of your girlfriend.

So, if you haven’t heard consistently from all your past girlfriends that you’re a great kisser them perhaps it’s time to see what you can do about learning how to kiss. After all, kissing isn’t merely a physical act of puckering up and pressing your lips against your girlfriend’s lips. Guys with superior kissing skills know that there is so much more to creating truly memorable kisses that will warm her heart and make her swoon.

In closing, learning how to kiss the way she always dreamed of will not only make her happy but the fringe benefits that it opens up to you far outweigh any amount of effort that you might need to put into it. Even if you are a fair to good kisser, couldn’t we all use a little improvement in an area so important to our significant other? I am sure you agree…

Want to learn more about kissing and how to create truly memorable kisses? Read Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out how to kiss her the way she has always dreamed of and win her heart forever.

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What could be so complicated about kissing that someone could possibly do it wrong, you might be asking.

Even if your partner is crazy in love with you that doesn’t make you skilled at kissing. Even if they absolutely love everything about you and never wish to be apart from you for even a moment out of the day that doesn’t mean that they enjoy kissing you. As a matter of fact, if you kissing skills are subpar or even poor it could ruin what might be an otherwise wonderful relationship. After all, without intimacy all you have is a deep fondness and possibly a person who never wishes to be stuck with a partner that doesn’t know how to kiss.

This may sound far fetched but the fact is that women judge you on your kissing ability. If you are a good kisser she will tell all of her friends, and this is one of the little secrets that they share after the first date. That’s right…after your first kiss there will be conversations that begin with whether you are a good kisser or not.

One of the Top Complaints Heard Amongst Women – Some women will try to overlook your inability to kiss well but in my research I have found that even those that stick with a man who lacks kissing skills, once the relationship ends that is one of the first things that they mention… that he didn’t even know how to kiss.

Complaints that I have heard about men who lack kissing skills include:

- All he did was open his mouth and stick his tongue out!

- He acted like he was kissing his grandmother

- He was always like he was trying to hit my tonsils!

- There was no tenderness; it was always like he was trying to swallow me whole!

- And the list goes on….

A Skill That She Will Never Forget – But for those men with kissing skills, you can guarantee that those women will never forget you. They will remember where you were, what was said, the music that was playing in the background and exactly what you did before, during and after a memorable kiss. For those men, when a relationship goes south her girlfriend will react with, “awwww…and he was such a great kisser too!”

What Can You Do? – Chances are if you are wondering if you are a good kisser then you could use some help. Actually, kissing is an area where everyone could learn a thing or two. So what can you do to improve your kissing skills?

Learn To Follow Her Lead – Allow her to tell you how she wants to be kissed. No, don’t ask her! I am saying that you need to let her take the lead a little bit. Get a feel for if she wants to be kissed gently and slowly…feel the pressure and the passion build between you. Listen to her breathing and let that tell you if you’re doing something right or wrong. Her fingers in your hair are always a good sign and are also a good thing for you to do with your hands from time to time.

Vary Your Pressure – Vary the intensity, the time it takes as you move closely to one another and the length of your kisses. Make a mental note or simply feel what is working and what isn’t. Yes, sometimes she is going to want to be swept up in a passionate kiss in a moment…and other times she is going to want to be “teased” or seduced into that kiss.

Watch Movies – This may sound corny but watch some chick flicks. Take note of how the hero kisses his girl. Typically, women watch these movies and identify with the female in the movie and this is typically how women want to be kissed. Take notes! Hollywood directors wouldn’t script movies with kissing just the way you will see if for any other reason other than this is how women want to be kissed.

Follow some of these tips and do your homework and you might very well become the type of man that can make a woman melt with but one simple kiss. Just your willingness to improve your kissing technique should be admired and in the long run improving your kissing technique will make for a happier love life for you and yours.

To learn more about how to improve your kissing technique and learn how to kiss we recommend Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out everything that you ever wanted to know about kissing from an expert in the field.