Nothing can be more thrilling than a spectacular kiss

You know the feeling. Everything is going great. You have finally found someone that you enjoy spending time with that you think about all the time. As things progress you wonder when it’s going to happen. You think about what it’s going to be like to finally kiss them for the first time… and then when the perfect moment comes along and your entire body screams for sweet relief from the agony of waiting for that first kiss you are met with such profound disappointment that you wonder if they even like you at all!

The truth is that sadly enough, not everyone knows how to kiss. Some people actually have no idea that they have absolutely no kissing skills, which is even more tragic. But what can you do about it? Fortunately, even the most mediocre and pathetic kisser can be taught how to kiss with proficiency and zest!

But how do you teach someone to kiss? Well, if you have found that special someone and they just don’t know how to kiss probably the best approach would be to tell them straight up that you want to teach them how to kiss. Explain to them that kissing is just really important to you and that you really like to kiss and you want to practice kissing with them often and repeatedly.

Chances are you won’t have much of a problem getting your partner to agree to regularly scheduled make-out sessions, especially if you have some skills in the kissing department.

So what do you actually do to teach someone to become a great kisser? Simply put, spend time kissing and explaining to them how kissing typically progresses. Here are a few tips and some ideas on how to dissect a kiss:

The Approach – Although there are variations on the approach when a couple begins to kiss, many times a slight hesitation or lingering just before your lips meet can create tension and wanting in your partner. Looking into their eyes as you move in for that kiss can speak volumes and enhance the passion between the two of you.

Intensity Building – Yes, there are times when the passion between you might be so intense that deep kissing might commence right off the bat but typically kissing begins with a few teasing kisses as the intensity and passion builds. Sure, there are times when everyone likes to be just pinned up against the wall and kissed deeply, but the time has to be right. If the timing is wrong you could easily get slapped across the face. But a good beginners rule would be to start with small kisses to your partner’s upper or lower lips with your mouth half open. Don’t pull away after each kiss but stay close as you slowly kiss, allowing the passion and desire to build.

Open Mouth Kisses – When kissing, how wide you can open your mouth or how far into your partners mouth you can stick your tongue is not the goal. You are not trying to devour your partner nor are you trying to tickle their tonsils. Yes, there are times when the intensity and passion between the two of you may build and you both find yourself swept up in how hard, deep and wide you can kiss but allow the situation to dictate this stuff and don’t think “ok, here’s the part where I show them how wide I can open my mouth and how long my tongue is”. This is poor form and will typically lead to no more kissing.

With a little bit of patience and a lot of practice you can turn the worst kisser into at least a tolerable kisser in no time. Of course, the best part of this whole equation is that you will be teaching your partner a skill that both of you will enjoy in the long run!

For a fun and detailed guide to kissing we recommend Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out how you can turn the worst kisser into someone that you’re never gonna wanna let go of ever! And you might even learn a few new kissing tips yourself!

Good Luck!

Studies have shown that if you are a poor kisser you cut your chances of building a long term relationship with a woman by almost half.

This is not to say that there aren’t women out there that don’t continue on with a relationship with a man who doesn’t know how to really light her fire with a kiss. For the other half of the female population a man that isn’t the greatest kisser in the world is still ok… although she would be thrilled to death if you did know how to curl her toes with a kiss.

Do you wonder if you are a good kisser or not? A simple test is to think back and try to remember if all of your past girlfriends commented on your kissing abilities. If you haven’t heard consistently from all or at least most of your past girlfriends that you are a great kisser then there is a very good chance that you aren’t. Women love to kiss and they do judge men on their kissing abilities. This is usually one of the topics of conversation between your girlfriend and her friends after you have been dating for a while.

All hope is not lost though if you lack kissing skills and abilities. Just like any skill, kissing can be learned and the talent improved upon if you are willing. And what a fun thing to learn! You can rest assured that your girlfriend or wife will appreciate the effort and notice the change in you almost immediately.

Here are a couple of tips to help you get started down the road to becoming a really talented kisser and how to heat things up with your girlfriend or wife.

The A Frame – Tighten up the A frame when you kiss her. What this means is when you are kissing your bodies make the letter A… very much like a step ladder. Tighten things up and move closer to her. Press your body against hers when you’re kissing. Perhaps even place your hand against the small of her back and pull her close to you.

There is a good chance that you might not even notice that you’re standing with a foot or so of space between you when you’re kissing. You will be surprised by how much more intimate and steamy your kissing is with things tightened up now. Try it…you’ll like it.

Open Mouth – Don’t forget the inbetween stage of kissing leading up to French kissing. Tease her with this in between stage of simple open mouth kissing as things begin to heat up. You can even make a game of it and see who will be the first one to go to full French kissing. Of course, don’t let it go on too long or she’ll just think that you’re weird and that you don’t know how to French kiss. Some women just aren’t as aggressive and won’t make that step until you do.

The Neck – The neck, shoulders, ears and collar bone are all great areas to kiss if you need to take a breather or wish to mix things up a little bit. Experiment and let her tell you with her reaction what areas are sensitive and what makes her happy.

Vary things with open mouth kisses on her neck and collar bone area and also little French kisses in these areas alternating with gentle blowing on the area that you just kissed. Either a gently breath or air from your open mouth or your nose will create a cooling sensation. Be careful around the ears with this technique though. Remember, gentle blowing on her neck will be very loud and perhaps even annoying in her ear.

Take a few of these tips to heart and you might be surprised with the reaction that you get from your girlfriend or wife. A man that really knows how to kiss is cherished and kissing is a skill that is often overlooked by men. It is not only a step that leads to more intimate acts but it is one of the more thoughtful and appreciated signs of affection that you can give to a woman. Why not learn how to do it well?

To really learn how to kiss we recommend Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out how to take her breath away with every kiss and how to be the best kisser she has ever kissed! Check it out today!

Good Luck!

If you’re like most guys, your kissing skills aren’t even something that you give much thought to.

The short of it is, if you haven’t heard consistently from your girlfriend, present and past, that you’re a great kisser then you might have a problem. Kissing is extremely important to women. Your kissing skills are probably more of a determining factor in the future of your relationship than you even realize!

Typically, a woman will look forward to that first kiss once you have passed all other tests that she might have for a prospective boyfriend. But your kissing skills, or lack of, could easily spell doom for your relationship if you are found lacking. Close to one half of all women polled said that they would not proceed further in a relationship with a man that didn’t know how to kiss. This means that almost one half of all women will not find you desirable if you don’t know how to kiss.

After that first kiss it is said that a woman can tell all that she needs to know about a man. Have you made her weak in the knees? Did you make her toes curl? Did that first kiss take her breath away? Did that first kiss change things for her and tell her that it is true love? Was there magic in the air and was she suddenly drunk with passion? Of course, if that first kiss wasn’t everything that she had dreamed it would be she might give you another chance to stir her heart. Everyone has a bad day and you could have been nervous, after all.

Once the two of you have had your first kiss you can bet that she is going to let all of her girlfriends know though. One of the first things that a woman will share with her girlfriends is whether or not you are a good kisser. Her friends will be waiting to hear. News that you are a good kisser will be greeted with requests for more information and often your girlfriend will share with her friends when, where and how your kiss made her feel. On the other hand, if you are a poor kisser, reports of the first kiss will be met with great sadness. No, it doesn’t make you completely undateable to every woman but it definitely is a strike against you. Likewise, having superior kissing abilities makes you very desirable in the eyes of your girlfriend.

So, if you haven’t heard consistently from all your past girlfriends that you’re a great kisser them perhaps it’s time to see what you can do about learning how to kiss. After all, kissing isn’t merely a physical act of puckering up and pressing your lips against your girlfriend’s lips. Guys with superior kissing skills know that there is so much more to creating truly memorable kisses that will warm her heart and make her swoon.

In closing, learning how to kiss the way she always dreamed of will not only make her happy but the fringe benefits that it opens up to you far outweigh any amount of effort that you might need to put into it. Even if you are a fair to good kisser, couldn’t we all use a little improvement in an area so important to our significant other? I am sure you agree…

Want to learn more about kissing and how to create truly memorable kisses? Read Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out how to kiss her the way she has always dreamed of and win her heart forever.

Good Luck!

What could be so complicated about kissing that someone could possibly do it wrong, you might be asking.

Even if your partner is crazy in love with you that doesn’t make you skilled at kissing. Even if they absolutely love everything about you and never wish to be apart from you for even a moment out of the day that doesn’t mean that they enjoy kissing you. As a matter of fact, if you kissing skills are subpar or even poor it could ruin what might be an otherwise wonderful relationship. After all, without intimacy all you have is a deep fondness and possibly a person who never wishes to be stuck with a partner that doesn’t know how to kiss.

This may sound far fetched but the fact is that women judge you on your kissing ability. If you are a good kisser she will tell all of her friends, and this is one of the little secrets that they share after the first date. That’s right…after your first kiss there will be conversations that begin with whether you are a good kisser or not.

One of the Top Complaints Heard Amongst Women – Some women will try to overlook your inability to kiss well but in my research I have found that even those that stick with a man who lacks kissing skills, once the relationship ends that is one of the first things that they mention… that he didn’t even know how to kiss.

Complaints that I have heard about men who lack kissing skills include:

- All he did was open his mouth and stick his tongue out!

- He acted like he was kissing his grandmother

- He was always like he was trying to hit my tonsils!

- There was no tenderness; it was always like he was trying to swallow me whole!

- And the list goes on….

A Skill That She Will Never Forget – But for those men with kissing skills, you can guarantee that those women will never forget you. They will remember where you were, what was said, the music that was playing in the background and exactly what you did before, during and after a memorable kiss. For those men, when a relationship goes south her girlfriend will react with, “awwww…and he was such a great kisser too!”

What Can You Do? – Chances are if you are wondering if you are a good kisser then you could use some help. Actually, kissing is an area where everyone could learn a thing or two. So what can you do to improve your kissing skills?

Learn To Follow Her Lead – Allow her to tell you how she wants to be kissed. No, don’t ask her! I am saying that you need to let her take the lead a little bit. Get a feel for if she wants to be kissed gently and slowly…feel the pressure and the passion build between you. Listen to her breathing and let that tell you if you’re doing something right or wrong. Her fingers in your hair are always a good sign and are also a good thing for you to do with your hands from time to time.

Vary Your Pressure – Vary the intensity, the time it takes as you move closely to one another and the length of your kisses. Make a mental note or simply feel what is working and what isn’t. Yes, sometimes she is going to want to be swept up in a passionate kiss in a moment…and other times she is going to want to be “teased” or seduced into that kiss.

Watch Movies – This may sound corny but watch some chick flicks. Take note of how the hero kisses his girl. Typically, women watch these movies and identify with the female in the movie and this is typically how women want to be kissed. Take notes! Hollywood directors wouldn’t script movies with kissing just the way you will see if for any other reason other than this is how women want to be kissed.

Follow some of these tips and do your homework and you might very well become the type of man that can make a woman melt with but one simple kiss. Just your willingness to improve your kissing technique should be admired and in the long run improving your kissing technique will make for a happier love life for you and yours.

To learn more about how to improve your kissing technique and learn how to kiss we recommend Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101. Find out everything that you ever wanted to know about kissing from an expert in the field.

Who would ever think that a book on kissing would ever become necessary?

Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 promises to teach you not just the basics of pressing your lips against your partner’s but how to create really memorable kisses… the type of kisses that will be remembered forever and earn you an eternal place in your partners heart.

There are three types of people out there; those that know how to kiss, those who don’t know how to kiss and those who think they know how to kiss but really don’t. There is no doubt that just about everyone could find something to add to their repertoire and make some kissing magic… and some just need a major overhaul of their technique.

Although this book was written for both sexes we all know that kissing is ultimately more important to women. And guys? In case you don’t know this, women talk amongst themselves and deem you either a good kisser or a bad kisser. And when things begin to go south in a relationship this fact is often taken into consideration such as “well, he was never a very good kisser anyhow so…he’s gone.” So you can see that kissing is a skill that should be taken very seriously.

Some of the information shared in Kissing 101 includes some very good tips for guys on how to get that first kiss and make it memorable, how to build tension by hesitating for just a moment as you move in for that first kiss and other helpful pieces of advice that will get you off on the right foot. After all, you never really get the opportunity to relive that first kiss. Yes, there are always chances to redeem your self but that first kiss will be remembered forever and noted whether it was good or bad.

Without getting too graphic, just about every aspect of kissing is brought to light including techniques and tips on how to practice your kissing technique. Everything from the first kiss to French kissing to more advanced kissing techniques. If it involves kissing then chances are it’s in this book.

You’ll learn what to do with your hands, special places to kiss other than just the lips, different types of kisses and even how to avoid uncomfortable situations when things just don’t seem to be working out. You are offered tips on different kissing pressures and when each is appropriate and how to know when to use each and the list goes on. Who would have ever thought that kissing could be so complicated and multi-faceted?

The thing that many people liked about Michelle Penny’s book was not just the depth and usefulness of the information on kissing but also the authors writing style. Many found this book genuinely fun to read…and yes guys, there are pictures too! The author made Kissing 101 funny, enjoyable and unique with many tips that you might have never even thought of before.

To learn more about Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 go to the Kissing 101 Homepage. Find out what you might be missing in your kissing technique and how you can become a kissing master.

I mean, is there one of us that hasn’t been in that position where we have found someone that we are really attracted to and we want to make that first kiss so perfect and memorable, yet we are nervous as heck. You’ve been there! Who kisses first? Are you reading their signals right? And what about that awkwardness afterwards? Was it ok? What are they thinking? Did you just blow it? Nothing could be worse or more wonderful all at the same time!

Then we got to thinking….what is the one thing that women always judge a guy on? Kissing ability! It’s on every woman’s mind and being a bad kisser is never ok. Ugh! Some guys just seem to either have it or they don’t…they can be hot as hell but if they lack the ability to kiss well…well, that can be a real stumbling block, now can’t it? And you ladies too…sorry but, if there’s no passion there it can be a real turn off to a guy. Want to talk about a blow to our ego!

Even if you’re an ok kisser we think that this book is going to interest you. The price is right at $19.95 and the author provides an 8 week money back guarantee just in case you’re some sort of “kissing guru” yourself and feel that there isn’t anything in “Kissing 101” for you to benefit from.

We have to say that it got us thinking about our own kissing techniques and how we might improve them to not only benefit ourselves but also to cultivate a little more intimacy…a little more passion…a little more chemistry in our lives.

To read our review go to “Consumer Products Overview Review of Kissing 101” or go to Michelle Penney’s Kissing 101 Homepage to find out how you can improve your own kissing skills. We think you’ll be surprised by not only all the areas covered in Michelle Penney’s book but also how it can help you in some of the areas that you might feel that you are lacking.