Seduction for Women – Sexting – When Less is More

Sexting is the talk of the town these days. Daytime talk shows broke this latest fad not too long ago and sexting was “outed” and suddenly a part of our culture along with “friending”, “tweets” and “retweets”.

Some of you might have already been sexting without even knowing that it actually had a name. Flirty little text messages sent to your boyfriend or husband were the perfect little reminder of what he had waiting for him at the end of the day. Maybe things would get a little more heated late at night if you were apart. And, of course, a few short, well worded text message could easily keep that guy you were interested in up all night if you were really good.

Either way, sexting has probably been going on for as long as there has been text messaging. SMS messaging, as it is formally called, is the perfect way to flirt with your boyfriend, husband or guy you’re interested in and drive him wild with passion for you.

Like any form of flirting though, less is more. No different than any other form of seduction or flirting, the woman who has the ability to leave a little bit to the imagination will always get a better response from her man than the one that just gets down and dirty right away. Subtle innuendos that lead him on with perhaps a spicy little tidbit thrown in when he’s least expecting it will get him right where you want him.

No different than showing just a little bit of leg or cleavage, a well worded text message can seduce a man as well as a pushup bra and a miniskirt any day. It’s all about teasing. It’s all about building up the emotional tension… and then shocking him, setting that hook and making him yours.

With the proper setup, buildup of tension and follow through you can pretty much guarantee that he isn’t going to be thinking of much more other than you for quite a while. Of course, each technique and series of message has to match the depth of your relationship and your desired outcome.

For instance, let’s say you have been in a relationship for a while. Maybe you’re married or living together. Things have gotten a little “routine” and you’re hoping to spice up your love life. You have heard about this “sexting” thing so you want to give it a try. This one is sure to not only make him come running home but chances are he will save this text message for years to come.

Wait until he is at work or, even better, in a meeting. Send him a text message telling him that you were just thinking about something. Once he responds back tell him that he has to promise not to think poorly of you. When he agrees tell him that you have a question for him. When he asks what ask him if he would be shocked if you told him that you wanted to taste him right now.

Now run outside, get the kids bikes out of the driveway and unlock the door because there’s a pretty good chance that he is going to leave work and come to wherever you are.

You see, it’s not always about graphic words and descriptions of actions that will move a man to distraction. It’s the gentle nuances of true seduction that will drive a man wild. It’s the hint of sexuality and the subtle flirty air that will make him yours.

With a little planning and some forethought you can turn your cell phone into a homing beacon for your man. A couple well thought out text messages and a desire to become the only woman he thinks about and you can move your man from several time zones away with the power of sexting.

To learn more about seduction and how to flirt we recommend Mimi Tanner’s “How To Flirt With Men“. To learn how to seduce him without a word and how to keep him interested for as long as you like go to the How To Flirt With Men Homepage.

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Ladies…Nothing Could Be Hotter Than A Little “Dirty Talk”

I thought it was half a joke when I first heard about Denise Brienne’s “Dirty Talk Guide” and almost dismissed this book deeming it as stupid. But after a quick look I realized that Denise was really onto something. As I read down through the Dirty Talk Guide Homepage I began to think of how much it would turn me on if my girlfriend said some of these things to me.

Honestly? Hot as HELL ladies! Now this might just be me, but just the thought of my girlfriend cuddling up to me on the couch and whispering some of these juicy tidbits in my ear would probably be more than I could handle. A quick one line text message with one of these in the middle of my day could be enough to cause me to call it a day and head directly home….and this is just the stuff on the Dirty Talking Guide Homepage!

Now, you might think that you got it covered and that you have your “pillow talk” down but I’m telling you that sometimes less is more. Sometimes a guy wants to be seduced or “warmed up”. Dropping the “F-bomb” isn’t necessary and might not be as effective as you might think. It will be little suggestive remarks that get his mind running and focusing upon you and you alone. How sweet would that be? You will be the focus of his sexual fantasies and not some hussy tart in his office.

If you’re worried that you will feel “dirty” or like a tramp I assure you that the reaction that you are going to get from your man will probably far out weigh any thought that you are demeaning yourself in any way. You’re not a tramp…you’re a “seductress”! Don’t you think that your man is going to become a little more attentive towards you? Don’t you think that he might just start treating you like the princess that you deserve to be treated like?

Just in case you are still worried, the information, tips, tricks and techniques that you will find inside the “Dirty Talk Guide” range from the most innocently mild (yet still effective) to some more advanced stuff that you can use once things really start to heat up. And Denise doesn’t just give you a book of lines that you can use on your man…although you do get a book full of “what to say” as a bonus…but she teaches you the how, when and where to talk your dirty talk….tone of voice, and how to give him that “come hither” stare that will melt him and make his heart yours forever.

Unless there is some sort of problem, chances are the tips and techniques in Denise Brienne’s Dirty Talk Guide will turn even the most hardened man into a stupid puppy dog chasing after his tail wondering what to do next. Getting him to take out the garbage will no longer be a problem and it’s up to you how else you wish to use this new found power.

Go to Denise Brienne’s “Dirty Talk Guide” Homepage to pick up some free tips and tricks that will turn him into a stuttering fool and find out how you can learn more advanced techniques to seduce your man with a little “dirty talk”

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Dirty Talk For Women – Turn Him Into An Animal

Perhaps you’re bored with the “same old same old” and want to add a little something to your seduction repertoire. Maybe you’ve heard that guys like a little “pillow talk” in the bedroom or heard that a little trash talking or “dirty talk” in an out of the bedroom could bring the spark back into your relationship.

As a guy, I have to tell you that these a little dirty talk can add a whole new aspect to your relationship. A few text messages, emails or a little somewhat sleazy “sweet nothing” whispered in your guy’s ear could quickly turn a boring evening sitting around on the couch while he watches football into a passionate night of romance like you’ve never seen before!

Now, I am not saying that you need to necessarily turn into some trash talking tramp who is going to use four letter expletives to describe what she wants to do to him as a turn on. As a matter of fact, sometimes less is more. Yes, that’s right…sometimes all it takes a few suggestive remarks said with the proper tone of voice that will have him kicking all of his beer buddies out of the house or sending the kids to bed early on a Friday night. Even a simple five word text message can be enough to cause him to cancel his meetings for the afternoon and come home early. I will share this one later but believe me….sometimes less is more.

You see, guys have a pretty vivid imagination and it has been said that thoughts of sex come to a guys mind about once every 7 seconds. If you want to harness this mind power and have him thinking of you all through those intervals and the very firm possibility that he won’t be able to keep his mind focused on much else other than you then a little dirty talk might be the way to do this.

You might be wondering what the result of all of this “dirty talk” might be. You might wonder if your husband or boyfriend might view you a little differently or feel that you are a bit of a tramp. I assure you that the overall response that will be left in his mind is that you are a very passionate lover and typically women found that they were treated much better after adding a little dirty talk to their arsenal of seduction techniques. They were treated like princesses and found their man more attentive even in other aspects of their relationship. After all, a little dirty talk might help motivate him to take the trash out the first time you ask him…wouldn’t you think?

The things that you might say can range in degree from a little seductive banter that many might describe as simple flirting all the way up to a little x-rated quip that you might whisper in his ear that would make a truck driver blush! You might feel a little naughty at first but the power behind a little dirty talk is enough to make it almost addictive!

So what can you say? Do you want a little sample of something that you can try out right now? Ok then….how about if you send him a text message or an email? Something that is suggestive enough and naughty enough to occupy his mind for the better part of the day while being clean enough to not go to his spam folder at work. Send him a message telling him that you have something that you want to tell him but you are only going to tell him if he promises that he won’t think less of you as a woman. When he replies back asking what it is and that he won’t think less of him tell him that you have been thinking about him all morning and then drop the bomb on him and say “…and I want to taste you…right now…”

Then just sit back and see what you get for a response. He might even wonder if someone else got a hold of your phone if you sent it through a text message or ask if you are drunk…and if you sent it via email he is going to wonder if someone is playing a joke on him. Assure him that it is you and that you crave the taste of his….well, you know the rest.

Just try this little experiment and see how much fun it is and how it can change so many things in your relationship. Yes, you might feel a little naughty at first but the response you will get from your husband or boyfriend is going to surprise you.

To learn more advanced techniques including how to sound sexy no matter what you say go to The “Dirty Talk Guide” Homepage. Find out how being naughty can feel so nice!

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