Text messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build a relationship

To begin with, text messaging is the perfect way to flirt with a woman thanks to the latency in this technology. Since no message is sent until you type it out and hit the “send” button you have time to think and edit your message to your heart’s content. Perhaps you truly lack texting skills… do you have a friend with skills? Have him sit beside you and help you come up with some witty banter to set her heart ablaze and her head spinning.

A word of warning though: If the woman you are texting has a couple of guys that she is interested in who are texting her at the same time competition can be fierce. Put your game face on and get your skills sharpened or you will definitely be left behind while your princess rides off into the sunset with some other guy. With the help of this advice though, you should be well on your way to outperforming even the slickest of pickup artists.

Be Witty – It will be necessary for you to be witty and clever in your text messages. Be original and avoid all the lines that most guys use like “hey sexy” or “hey baby” or “hey beautiful”. Most girls have heard all of these a hundred times before. Think outside the box. Be goofy and make her literally laugh out loud. Off the top of my head, something random that might get a laugh would be, “my dog wants to know what you’re wearing…” Relax and have fun. Enjoy the detached nature of text messaging and be yourself.

Of course, once you have built a little rapport and gotten to the “pet name stage” of the relationship it is not only ok but encouraged that you send her regular text messages saying “hey sexy” or “hey beautiful”. Remember, text messaging is easy and quick so there really is no reason not to touch base with her at least in the morning and night once she has come to expect your messages. Failure to do so is one of the biggest that women have concerning a man’s text messaging prowess and shows a lack of attentiveness.

Put Her On The Hook – Text messages that can be answered with a simple yes or no simply will not suffice if you are trying to use text messages to flirt or build a connection. Before you send your text ask yourself if the question can be answered simply yes or no and if so reword your question so she will have to think a little bit more. Chances are that if she has a couple of guys that she is interested in the one that captivates her will be the one that she winds up spending time texting. If you are the one sending text messages that only require a yes or no answer she will probably wind up not answering and will tell you that her battery died, she fell asleep or she left her phone in the car or purse.

An example of a poor text message might be “I had a great time tonight did you?” First, this is very needy but also it can be answered with a simple “yes”. A clever way of rewording this would be “I had such a good time tonight I want to hit replay and do it all over again!” Of if the food was bad at dinner, “The appetizer was good but I think the urinal cakes in that place were better than the entrée.” And then you have an opening to ask for another date with “next time YOU get to pick the restaurant…and pay.”

Follow The Flow – Try to mirror or follow the flow of the conversation when you are texting. If she uses a lot of texting shorthand like “ur” for “you are” you can follow suit. If she uses proper English you should do likewise. Internet shorthand is falling out of style and many intelligent women will judge you by your spelling and grammar if you find that she doesn’t use internet shorthand. Knowing the difference between “there, their and they’re” is a common test.

Frequency – If she stops texting you or seems short in her responses during a conversation it could be that she is busy. Try not to be an annoyance. End the conversation on a positive note and tell her that you think she’s the coolest or that she’s the sweetest and that you have to run and that you’ll talk with her soon. Forcing a text conversation can make you appear needy and a bit stalkerish.

Work on your text messaging skills. In this day and age it is a part of dating and relationships that you simply can’t avoid. Burying your head in the sand and saying that texting isn’t for you simply won’t cut it. Once you get the hang of it you will find that it’s actually a very easy way to communicate with beautiful women while taking away all the things that used to make you nervous about talking on the phone in the beginning. Try using some of these tips and see how easy it really can be.

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I’m sorry I had to be a little blunt with the article title there, gentlemen…

It’s not that women don’t have triggers such as this…that if you do a particular thing or if you act a particular way she will be turned on. It’s just not that simple with women. It is typically a combination of events and stimuli that lead to a woman becoming turned on.

Unlike most men who can be turned on visually by an attractive woman in revealing clothing (short skirt, low cut top, high heels, etc), women are a bit more complicated. This is not to say that women aren’t turned on visually, no matter what any woman might tell you to the contrary. Women are turned on visually in both the same way that men are (naked cowboy or fireman calendars wouldn’t sell if they weren’t) but often it is things that are a little more subtle that turn women on. It is things like seeing you, her man, in a nice suit if he doesn’t usually wear a suit…or just after you get a hair cut if you were in dire need of one.

For a typical woman, there are usually hundreds of things that will get her “in the mood”. It could be something as simple as a movie. It could be a particular way that a guy dresses. It could be facial hair or the absence of facial hair. It could be a particular attitude that a man has. It could be the tone of your voice. It could be watching you perform a particular task, such as building a fire or changing the oil in the car. It could be cooking a meal that turns her on.

The fact is that it could be just about anything that adds up to arouse her animal instinct and thus cause her to be turned on. Sorry to say it’s usually not just one thing, although I believe that most women have a “magic button” that just sends the “lust meter” off the chart and turns them on. If you do happen to find that magic button though, don’t make the mistake of hitting it too many times. By doing so she may become immune to its effect and then you’re back at square one looking for another magic button!

If you are ever hoping to become a pro at seducing your woman it is going to take doing some homework. It is going to take some studying of your wife or girlfriend and figuring her out. Needless to say, this is not the type of homework that they gave you in high school or college. This is the kind of homework you always dreamed of in school…and it can be done. Where there’s a will there’s a way. Chances are you might already now a few things that do turn her on if you sit and think about it for a while. But if you are interested in really digging deep down into not only what works for your girlfriend or wife but finding out what tends to work on most women then I am going to suggest that you check out Super Seduction Power. I know….kind of a weird name but it that is really what it’s all about…

If you want to be schooled in seducing women this is not only the first place to start but probably the only book that you will ever need. It’s not a bunch of corny pickup lines or “how to act” to turn women on. This is a dig deep and actually learn what turns women on. I think you will really find that it makes a lot of sense and you will find that you have been doing so many things wrong that it might take you a little bit of time to undo what you have done…and also, for your wife or girlfriend to get used to the chance not only in you but in herself…where she will actually be turned on to you more than ever. It’s going to be quite a change around your household and I think that both of you will be happier for checking out this book. You DO want her to be happy, right?

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