MISTAKE #1

Trying to buy back her love. Buying her flowers, earings or anything of that nature.

You are demonstrating lower value and desperation when you try and buy a woman’s love. Only low value men have to demonstrate their “value” with material possessions. The more effort you put into her, the further away you will push her.

MISTAKE #2

Begging her to come back and telling her you’ll “change”.  Attraction is not a logical choice. Once a woman has lost attraction for you, you need to re-create it. You cannot create attraction by asking or begging. These efforts will only cause her to become even more repulsed by you. She will essentially lose even more attraction.

Women do not respond to logical attempts or reasons to continue the relationship. There is only one reason to continue a relationship and that is raw attraction.

MISTAKE #3

Acting depressed and hurt so she will feel sorry for you. Again this will only cause her to lose even more attraction for you. Attraction does not work like that! You’re simply not being the guy you used to be. You need to realize that a woman will never be attracted to a needy, insecure man.

MISTAKE #4

Always doing what she wanted you to do and following her lead. Women are genetically programmed to be attracted to men who lead. They don’t want a puppy dog for a boyfriend.

MISTAKE #5

Being overly nice. When you’re “too nice” to her she knows you’ve got an agenda (win her back) and that alone is unattractive. She will see right through your little ploy to win her back and it will only repulse her further.

So now that you know what not to do and the things you’re doing to push her away, what’s left to do? How can you re-create attraction with her? Well first of all, you can breathe a sigh of relief because there are very powerful, specific things you can do to re-create attraction with her.

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I will admit that The Magic of Making Up is one of the most popular relationship books out there right now. It has helped many couples get back together and the advice given makes sense…it is logical and easy to follow. Common sense will tell you that the information given would be effective in repairing a broken relationship and bringing back a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend that has strayed or decided to end a relationship.

Now, I am not here to completely write off T. W Jackson’s Magic of Making Up as an effective resource for you to use to win your spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend back but I am here to say that I don’t feel that it lives up to all the hype given to it. I found the information rudimentary and I wasn’t surprised by the content since these were all thoughts that I had soon after a relationship of my own ended. I admit that some of the tips that Mr Jackson includes in his book were helpful but nothing that I didn’t already know or find effective in building my relationship with my girlfriend over the years….little things that I had noticed that helped us to work through rough patches over the years or things that I found to be effective in building that “connection” with her.

The thing that The Magic of Making Up has going for it is that it is a simply laid out plan that one can use to rebuild your relationship. There are no sneaky games to be played or psychological tricks. It is a no nonsense game plan that nobody will feel guilty for implementing. This is the problem with many of the other relationship repair guides out there presently. Many use psychological “hot buttons” in an attempt to drive your wayward mate back to you and many people have a problem ethically with using such tools to their advantage…at least knowingly. It is a fact though that many women use games during not only the period directly after a breakup and also during the dating phase of a relationship to drive men wild. This is a fact that many women will admit to only in the confidence of their closest friends…sorry ladies. I have many female friends who freely admit this. It is also a fact that many men play games, although their motives are notoriously less admirable. For these men I have the least amount of respect since a woman’s motives tend to be for a relationship and men use this fact to their advantage.

So my point is that if you are looking for something that is easy and “doable” for just about anyone as a ‘first response” attempt to win back your ex, The Magic of Making Up might be what you’re looking for. If, on the other hand, you are desperate and in dire need of something powerful to win back your boyfriend of girlfriend, perhaps another resource would be better suited for you. Think first about what direction you want to go and how “up front” you want to be with your mate as far as winning them back. As we discussed, neither path is wrong or unethical. It is all about where your comfort zone is and how comfortable you feel with stepping outside of what you feel comfortable in doing.

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