Sexting is the talk of the town these days. Daytime talk shows broke this latest fad not too long ago and sexting was “outed” and suddenly a part of our culture along with “friending”, “tweets” and “retweets”.
Some of you might have already been sexting without even knowing that it actually had a name. Flirty little text messages sent to your boyfriend or husband were the perfect little reminder of what he had waiting for him at the end of the day. Maybe things would get a little more heated late at night if you were apart. And, of course, a few short, well worded text message could easily keep that guy you were interested in up all night if you were really good.
Either way, sexting has probably been going on for as long as there has been text messaging. SMS messaging, as it is formally called, is the perfect way to flirt with your boyfriend, husband or guy you’re interested in and drive him wild with passion for you.
Like any form of flirting though, less is more. No different than any other form of seduction or flirting, the woman who has the ability to leave a little bit to the imagination will always get a better response from her man than the one that just gets down and dirty right away. Subtle innuendos that lead him on with perhaps a spicy little tidbit thrown in when he’s least expecting it will get him right where you want him.
No different than showing just a little bit of leg or cleavage, a well worded text message can seduce a man as well as a pushup bra and a miniskirt any day. It’s all about teasing. It’s all about building up the emotional tension… and then shocking him, setting that hook and making him yours.
With the proper setup, buildup of tension and follow through you can pretty much guarantee that he isn’t going to be thinking of much more other than you for quite a while. Of course, each technique and series of message has to match the depth of your relationship and your desired outcome.
For instance, let’s say you have been in a relationship for a while. Maybe you’re married or living together. Things have gotten a little “routine” and you’re hoping to spice up your love life. You have heard about this “sexting” thing so you want to give it a try. This one is sure to not only make him come running home but chances are he will save this text message for years to come.
Wait until he is at work or, even better, in a meeting. Send him a text message telling him that you were just thinking about something. Once he responds back tell him that he has to promise not to think poorly of you. When he agrees tell him that you have a question for him. When he asks what ask him if he would be shocked if you told him that you wanted to taste him right now.
Now run outside, get the kids bikes out of the driveway and unlock the door because there’s a pretty good chance that he is going to leave work and come to wherever you are.
You see, it’s not always about graphic words and descriptions of actions that will move a man to distraction. It’s the gentle nuances of true seduction that will drive a man wild. It’s the hint of sexuality and the subtle flirty air that will make him yours.
With a little planning and some forethought you can turn your cell phone into a homing beacon for your man. A couple well thought out text messages and a desire to become the only woman he thinks about and you can move your man from several time zones away with the power of sexting.
To learn more about seduction and how to flirt we recommend Mimi Tanner’s “How To Flirt With Men“. To learn how to seduce him without a word and how to keep him interested for as long as you like go to the How To Flirt With Men Homepage.