Perhaps your mother told you when you were young that a man wants a cook in the kitchen, a lady on his arm and a seductress in the bedroom…or something along those lines. And Momma also told you that if you can be these three things that your man will never stray of grow tired of you.
If you are looking for an easy way to get his motor running to the point of almost blowing a head gasket then listen up. If you want to drive him wild with desire without having to act like a porn star it’s easier than you think. Talking dirty to your man doesn’t require you to quote lines from some x-rated flick and you will be surprised by how easy it is to drive your husband or boyfriend to the point of distraction with just a few seductive words.
You see, dirty talk doesn’t have to be that dirty. Seducing a man and shocking the heck out of him doesn’t mean bombarding him with a string of four letter words or agreeing to some sort of kinky escapade. A man’s imagination sometimes just needs a bit of a nudge in order to have thoughts of you occupying his mind for what might wind up being the better part of the day if you play things right.
Talking a little dirty, by the way, also might be a very effective technique to use to “reel him in” when you think that he is beginning to stray or if you are just beginning to get back together after a breakup. What a way to show him that you have changed and that things are going to be different? You should be warned though that sometimes a text message sent during a very important business meeting or an email sent to his work in the middle of the day might actually make him incapable of focusing on anything other than you!
Now, I promise you that there are very few women out there that use these techniques and even fewer that know how to use them effectively…and there are different levels of “dirty talk”. There are ways of talking dirty that range from “not so dirty” that still get your message across and will drive him up a wall without being sent to the spam folder in his email…to things that you can say that would make a porn star blush. We will focus on things that you can say or send to him in an email or text message for beginners though for the sake of decency.
You can try this one today if you want and see the reaction that you get to tell if I am telling the truth or not. Send him either a text message or an email that first says, “I have something to tell you but promise me that you won’t think less of me?” This will make him wonder what is up and chances are you will get an email or text message back saying “what’s up” or “ok, what is it?” and that he won’t think less of you….and he won’t! Reply back to him saying “I want to taste you…right now”. Don’t be surprised if he leaves whatever he is doing or if you leave him completely speechless.
There are other techniques that can be used both in person, over the phone, through instant message, text message and email but I probably won’t be able to publish them here. Just know that these methods and zippy little one liners will take away any thoughts that he might have for any other woman and chances are you will become a priority over food, drink and sleep.
To learn more of these techniques and how to talk dirty go to The “Dirty Talking Guide” Homepage for more tips and tricks on how to talk dirty to your man. Find out how to talk dirty in a “not so dirty” way all the way up to things you can say that would make a porn star blush.