Just like any woman, a Ukrainian or Russian Mail Order Bride has certain things that turn her off as well as turn her on. Before you can know what turns her on it is best to know what will turn her off.
Even if you think that you have mad romance skills with the ladies you will find that Russian and Ukrainian women have particular differences from the women in your own country. If you’ve ever traveled abroad you will know that cultural differences differ greatly from country to country…culture to culture. Little things such as personal space, acceptable displays of affection and unspoken “dating rituals” vary between cultures.
Likewise, there are a few things that you will find that Ukrainian and Russian women have particular likes and dislikes that are important for you to know. You will find some of these general dislikes that many Russian and Ukrainian Mail Order Brides actually list in their profiles as things that they find totally unacceptable…and a couple that they don’t mention…
Lying – You might read in some Mail Order Bride’s profiles that they find lying or “lie” as unforgivable or unacceptable. They expect total honesty and being caught in a lie can mean the death of your relationship with them. Honestly and integrity is appreciated and expected.
There really is no reason to lie about your height, weight or age. You might think that it’s not a big thing to bend the truth a bit about your height or weight but if you add three or four inches to your height or subtract forty or fifty pounds from your weight and then show up to meet her and you’re not six feet tall or you do have a big beer belly it’s going to be a bit of a let down for her. If you only send her pictures of yourself from ten years ago she might also be greatly disappointed.
Yes, all of us want to be loved and feel attractive but lying about your age or what you look like isn’t the way to her heart. True love is not built on lies. If you don’t have any good recent pictures of yourself I wouldn’t suggest that you try taking pictures of yourself in the bathroom mirror with your cell phone. Instead have a friend take a few pictures some weekend when you’re relaxed and in a good mood and pick out a few of the better ones to send to your new girlfriend. A nice smile is attractive no matter what you look like and honesty is always the best policy. After all, it is YOU that she will be falling in love with…the man…not just your face or your body…
As far as your age….total honesty is the only way to go. Age is actually the least important thing to Ukrainian and Russian women. They tend not to be hung up on age as much as Western women and a ten to twenty year age gap is not unheard of so there really is no reason to lie about your age. Of course, as you get closer to the twenty year age gap you have to be aware that there may be generational differences that you should be aware of. As a test for yourself, think about the age of your friends. Do you have friends that are ten to twenty or more years younger than you? Do you have things in common or do you find yourself not being able to identify with girls twenty years younger than you?
Ignorance of Her Country or Culture – You may never read in a Ukrainian or Russian Mail Order Bride’s profile that she is looking for a man that knows about her country, culture or customs but this is one of those unspoken “wants”. Knowing even a little bit about the city where she lives and as much as possible about her culture will make a world of difference and improve your chances of success with any Russian or Ukrainian Mail Order Bride….period.
Think about this for a moment. Who do you think has a better chance with one of these beautiful, sexy young ladies….a man that has put forth the effort to learn about her country and culture or a man that is self centered and has no desire to know anything about where she comes from? This is a common fault that many foreign men have while thinking that it really doesn’t matter because she will be coming to live in HIS country, after all. How ignorant do you think you will appear if you make no attempt to learn about the country and customs of the country where she has spent all her life? The fact remains though that no matter what…no matter where she lives in this world she will still be Russian or Ukrainian in her heart. She will always love her home country and she will always wish to follow the traditions that she grew up with. New Years will always be the focus of the holiday season and International Women’s Day will always be a day when she will expect to receive flowers.
The men that find the greatest success with women in Russia and Ukraine are those that immerse themselves in the culture of these countries. They learn everything that they can about Russia and Ukraine so as to avoid many of the cultural booby-traps that many men fall into…and secondly, to show their devotion and care for the woman that they are courting. Trust this one fact that nothing will speak to her heart more than putting forth the effort to know who she is and where she comes from. Why? Because most men never do this and it will set you apart from all the other guys that are clamoring for her affections.
To learn more about Ukrainian and Russian Mail Order Brides go to The Ukrainian Bride Guide Homepage. Find out exactly what it takes to win the heart of a young, sexy Russian or Ukrainian Mail Order Bride.